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Quick reviews: The Dip, The Black Swan, Capitalism: a Love Story, and Ajab Prem...
Living in NYC and taking the trains now means I actually might have time to get some reading done! Woohoo!
So let's start with the books: I finished "The Dip" by Seth Godin (really slim) The message (or more accurately what I remember):
First, know when to quit; second, remember there is disproportionate reward for being the "best"; third, being the best requires having the will and determination to power through "The Dip".
Great examples, and fun and useful read in a psychology-for-people-who-re
ally-want-to-over-achieve kind of way. I definitely recommend it.
I'm about two-third's of the way through Nassim Taleb's "The Black Swan" It a very engaging read. The book goes over a number of biases we humans have and the fallacies and errors in judgement we perpetuate. Lot of great examples of how we don't really know how much we think we know, how we try to force logic and ill-fitting explanations on situations and most importantly, how we're just terrible at considering random events in our thinking and planning. Lot of great stuff (i.e. rants and commentary) on philosophy and the theory on knowledge thrown in there for good measure as well. The take-away for me was not just to reduce the biases/error I have, but to watch out for it in others arguments and not be taken in by them.
People try just a little too hard to explain everything! :)
Capitalism: A Love Story. I disagree with the premise; and think the ending takes things too far. However, a lot of what's in between is extremely powerful and compelling. The level of corporate greed and machination is shocking. Greed may be good, but the people who're greedy are also evil and arrogant (which they often are) and that's where the tragedy lie.
And finally, the wife and I caught Ajab Prem Ki Gajab Kahani the weekend before the last. It was fun... and pretty funny too. It was good to see Raj Kumar Santoshi direct a comedy again and a pretty young one at that... and holy crap, it looks like Ranbir Kapoor is heading for super-star territory already!
Every once in a while, I'm reminded that humans can be completely lacking in humanity.
My wife had the following experience yesterday on her ride back home. She got on the train and found a seat. The train was unusually crowded and it looked a lot of people had to stand for a long ride. An elderly Asian gentleman carrying a few things in both hands, was looking for spot, started to complain smilingly about the train being so full and stood in the aisle at the back of the carriage some seats away from her.
She expected someone closer to gentleman in the aisle (lots of younger people on the train) to give him their seat.
No one did.
The train started, and it was clear the man was having a lot of trouble standing up. Then at the next stop there was actually an announcement saying the train was full so please give up your seats to people who needed them.
Still nobody moved.
My wife got up walked to the end of the train and asked the gentleman to go over to her seat. She still couldn…
A couple of weeks ago, while in line waiting to pick up some food I'd just ordered, I overheard two conversations - I don't make a habit of this, but it's hard to not hear things when you leave your phone behind. :-/
My first reactions as I heard both of these conversations was annoyance at the protagonist in one and admiration for the other. Both conversations stayed with me for a while, but it took me some time to realize that was unfair on my part to be annoyed at the person that I was annoyed at.
So about these conversations:
The first was between someone working there and a friend. She was sympathizing with her friend who'd be starting a new job leaving this place. "Oh, it's minimum wage again?", she said with concern in her voice. "Yes, but it's fine", said her friend. The job was closer to where she lived so she thought she'd make about the same and she might get home a little earlier to her daughter some evenings though the hours…